Your Smart Home Is Spying On You: An Urgent Guide to IoT Privacy

An urgent warning about how smart home devices are used for surveillance by corporations, governments, and abusers. Learn how to protect yourself from IoT spying with practical, non-technical steps.

Escape Big Tech Escape Big Tech
May 9, 2025
⏱️ 7 min read
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Your Smart Home Is a Surveillance Network

Every smart device in your home is a potential spy. That Amazon Alexa on your nightstand? It records everything you say and sends it to Amazon’s servers. Your Ring doorbell? Police departments have direct access to the footage. Your smart TV? It’s tracking what you watch and selling that data.

This isn’t paranoia—it’s documented fact.

You need to understand this NOW if you are:

  • A domestic abuse survivor (abusers use smart devices to stalk and control)
  • An activist or protestor (governments track dissidents through IoT devices)
  • A journalist protecting sources
  • Someone with medical conditions you want private
  • Anyone who believes privacy is a human right

Real-World Horror Stories: When Smart Homes Turn Against You

Domestic Abuse Through Smart Devices

In 2018, The New York Times reported dozens of cases where abusers used smart home devices to terrorize victims:

  • Changing thermostat settings to extreme temperatures
  • Playing loud music through speakers at night
  • Watching victims through security cameras
  • Unlocking doors remotely to intimidate
  • Using location tracking to stalk

Government Surveillance Cases

Amazon Echo Murder Case (2015): Police demanded Alexa recordings from a murder scene. Amazon initially resisted but eventually complied.

Ring + Police Partnerships: Over 2,100 police departments can request your doorbell footage without a warrant through Amazon’s “Neighbors” app.

Smart TV Spying: In 2017, WikiLeaks revealed CIA tools for turning Samsung smart TVs into covert microphones, even when “off.”

Corporate Data Practices

  • Undisclosed Hardware Features: Some devices have included capabilities not initially disclosed to consumers
  • Mapping Data: Robot vacuums create detailed floor plans that may be shared with third parties
  • Viewing Data Collection: TV manufacturers have faced penalties for undisclosed data collection practices

The Most Dangerous Devices in Your Home

1. Voice Assistants (Extreme Risk)

Alexa, Google Home, Siri

  • Record everything, not just commands
  • Employees listen to your private conversations
  • Police can subpoena all recordings
  • Cannot be made private—only solution is removal

2. Smart Cameras & Doorbells (Extreme Risk)

Ring, Nest, Arlo

  • Police access without warrants
  • Hackers regularly break into feeds
  • Record audio along with video
  • Create permanent records of visitors

3. Smart TVs (High Risk)

  • Track everything you watch
  • Listen to room conversations
  • Sell data to hundreds of companies
  • Can be hacked to spy on you

4. Smart Locks (High Risk)

  • Log every entry and exit
  • Can be hacked to grant access
  • Often controlled by landlords/abusers
  • Create permanent access records

5. Smart Thermostats & Sensors (Medium Risk)

  • Track when you’re home
  • Used by abusers for harassment
  • Sell data to utility companies
  • Reveal daily routines

Who’s Watching You Through Your Devices?

Abusive Partners & Stalkers

Smart home devices are the perfect tool for abuse:

  • Monitor victims 24/7 through cameras
  • Control home environment remotely
  • Track location and routines
  • Gaslight by changing settings
  • Listen to private conversations

If you’re escaping abuse: Assume ALL smart devices are compromised.

Law Enforcement & Government

Your smart home data is routinely accessed by:

  • Local police (through corporate partnerships)
  • Federal agencies (FBI, ICE, DEA)
  • Intelligence services (NSA, CIA)
  • Foreign governments (if data is stored abroad)

No warrant needed for much of this access due to third-party doctrine.

Hackers & Criminals

Common attacks include:

  • Watching through baby monitors
  • Unlocking smart locks for burglary
  • Terrorizing families through speakers
  • Stealing personal data for identity theft

URGENT: Protect Yourself Today

If You Have 5 Minutes

  1. UNPLUG all voice assistants right now
  2. COVER all cameras with tape
  3. DISCONNECT smart devices you don’t absolutely need
  4. CHANGE all passwords to unique, strong ones

If You Have 30 Minutes

  1. Check what’s connected: List every smart device in your home
  2. Review permissions: Check what each device can access
  3. Delete voice histories:
    • Alexa: Alexa app → Settings → Alexa Privacy → Review Voice History → Delete All
    • Google: myactivity.google.com → Delete activity by → Voice & Audio
  4. Factory reset devices you’re removing
  5. Enable 2FA on all smart home accounts

If You’re In Immediate Danger

  1. Document everything before making changes (for evidence)
  2. Contact domestic violence hotline: 1-800-799-7233
  3. Create new accounts unknown to your abuser
  4. Get a new router to ensure clean network
  5. Seek professional help for thorough device removal

Safer Alternatives

Instead of Voice Assistants

  • Use your phone’s assistant in airplane mode
  • Type searches instead of speaking them
  • Use physical timers and notes

Instead of Smart Cameras

  • Use local-only security cameras with SD cards
  • Install cameras that don’t connect to internet
  • Use motion-sensor lights instead

Instead of Smart Locks

  • Use traditional deadbolts
  • Install chain locks for added security
  • Consider keypad locks without internet

Instead of Cloud-Connected Devices

  • Choose devices that work without internet
  • Look for “local control only” options
  • Use mechanical alternatives when possible

Step-by-Step Privacy Protection

1. Audit Your Devices

Make a list of every smart device:

  • What data does it collect?
  • Where is data stored?
  • Who has access?
  • Can it function without internet?

2. Minimize What’s Connected

For each device ask:

  • Do I really need this?
  • What am I risking for convenience?
  • Are there offline alternatives?

3. Secure What Remains

For devices you must keep:

  • Change all default passwords
  • Enable two-factor authentication
  • Put on separate WiFi network
  • Review privacy settings monthly
  • Turn off when not needed

4. Create Privacy Zones

Establish device-free areas:

  • Bedrooms (no cameras/microphones)
  • Bathrooms (absolute privacy)
  • Private conversation areas

Network Security Basics

Create a Guest Network

  1. Access your router settings (usually 192.168.1.1)
  2. Find “Guest Network” option
  3. Create separate network for smart devices
  4. Use strong password
  5. Keep your phones/computers on main network

This limits damage if a device is hacked.

Change Default Settings

Every device comes with weak security:

  • Default passwords like “admin/admin”
  • Open ports for remote access
  • Analytics and data sharing enabled
  • Automatic cloud uploads active

Change EVERYTHING or remain vulnerable.

Know Your Rights

In the United States

  • Fourth Amendment doesn’t protect data given to third parties
  • Police can access smart home data without warrants in many cases
  • No federal IoT privacy law exists
  • State laws vary wildly

Protection Strategies

  • Use devices without cloud features
  • Encrypt everything possible
  • Regularly delete stored data
  • Know what court orders can access

Red Flags: When to Disconnect Everything

Disconnect devices immediately if:

  • You’re leaving an abusive relationship
  • You’re involved in protests or activism
  • You notice unexplained behavior changes
  • Devices activate without commands
  • You’re facing legal issues
  • Someone threatens to use devices against you

For Specific Situations

Renters

  • Document all pre-installed devices
  • Ask landlords about camera/audio recording
  • Request removal of unnecessary devices
  • Know your state’s recording laws
  • Consider moving if privacy is impossible

Parents

  • Never put cameras in children’s rooms
  • Explain privacy risks to older children
  • Use parental controls, not surveillance
  • Model good privacy habits

Seniors

  • Simplify rather than “smartify”
  • Medical alerts don’t need internet
  • Beware of “helpful” monitoring
  • Maintain dignity and privacy

The Bottom Line

Smart home devices are surveillance devices. Period. They’re designed to collect data about you, not to protect you. Every device you connect is another way for corporations, governments, and criminals to invade your privacy.

You have three choices:

  1. Remove all smart devices (safest)
  2. Carefully manage a few essential devices (risky)
  3. Ignore the risks (dangerous)

Choose wisely. Your privacy, safety, and freedom depend on it.

Resources for Help

  • Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
  • Cyber Civil Rights Initiative: cybercivilrights.org
  • Coalition Against Stalkerware: stopstalkerware.org
  • Electronic Frontier Foundation: eff.org
  • Privacy Rights Clearinghouse: privacyrights.org

Remember: You’re not paranoid. The surveillance is real, the threats are real, and your concerns are valid. Take action today to reclaim your home as a private, safe space.

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